I was referring to your assertion that the original parent is always the best parent. I can assure you that that is not always so.
The assumption we were not dealing with methed out gay hookers but generally stable people, I didn’t think was needed. Of course if the parent is some proven dirtbag the kid is FAR better off adopted. No question.
In context, BP may not be Mother Thresa but she is a hell of a long way from unfit from all we have in the public sphere. And she is certainly better than a lot of so called ‘better’ two parent families I grew up around. Sex life included.