I TOTALLY AGREE with every word you said.
I agree, as well. This time of year, Memorial Day, Flag Day, Independence Day, etc I often go to decorate my uncles' graves who served in WWI and WWII. It's making me ill. I don't even fly the American flag on my house any more.
You’re not alone. I haven’t put up my flag for the past two years or so. It just doesn’t seem right anymore. There’s something discordant about doing so.