Women tend to have more plans for their wedding. We raise girls to dream of it, and don’t tend to mention it much to boys. I only had 2 things I wanted for my wedding: I wanted to wear tails, and I wanted it outside. The wife didn’t like the outside idea, so we found a nice atrium, like outside but her heels didn’t sink into the floor and the climate was controlled, good enough for me. The wife’s not such a girly-girl but she had a more significant “the wedding should” list than me. Which in the end made planning easier, it’s good to have somebody with ideas.
Fortunately my mother and father didn't focus on that. And I had no interest. I hoped I would meet and marry a man who was honest and of good character. Okay, I wanted him really smart too.
Tails. Now that shows your good taste.