Posted on 04/20/2015 8:11:24 AM PDT by NetAddicted
On the surface, the question seems simple enough: “Are you sexually attracted to your wife?” That’s what I asked 34-year-old Joshua Weed during a phone call. He breathed in deep. “That’s a really difficult question,” he said. “It’s hard to say that with clarity.” Weed is sexually attracted to men, but he’s married to a woman. “I love her very much and we do have a very good sex life,” he said. “I think she’s beautiful.” But he adds: “I’m gay.”
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See that... we had a language/definition barrier.
A drug. It helps you sleep.
It’s often used as a rape drug.
I think everyone is aware of this sort of classification, even if they have it defined differently.
Does that mean he learned to be hetero with his wife? That flies in the face of the popular psychobabble du jur that claims the preference is genetic, not cultural.
Herod the Great had maggots infesting his penis and this is not the only damage foreign organisms can do.
Huh. That must be why they call a “zipper” a fly.
From what I can tell, sexual experience does have huge effect on the direction one takes. This man, if he’s telling the truth about not having had any actual homosexual experiences, he’s learned to associate sexual activity only in a heterosexual context, so there’s a good chance that he will not act out on his desire.
Great minds!
I never believed that homosexuals were acting on actual sexual attraction. I always thought it was primarily an emotional attraction, with the sexual component being a part of the emotional attraction, because we are sexual beings.
I’d say so. Look at what happens with straight men, when they aren’t being emotionally fed by their wives. A lot of porn is consumed because men are lonely within their marriages.
More precisely, alpha males are the ones which lots of women want to have sex with. Mick Jagger (in his prime), for example, was not "bigger and stronger" than other males, but he was very definitely an alpha.
Beta males are the ones that women "settle" for, when it becomes evident that none of the alpha males who she slept with displayed any interest in actually marrying her. Betas are good providers, but unexciting.
With Alpha males, it is just easier to go through a succession of bed-warmers than to go through the trouble and struggle of maintaining a relationship with any particular woman. One of my college friends comes to mind: tall, handsome, intelligent -- all the girls wanted him. I was catching up with him a year ago. He never married.
Even black people go, "He got some big-ass lips." - Eddie Murphy
A word of advice: Don't mess with Mr. In-Between.
I'm sorry. I would respond in depth, but this fit of laughter is about to incapacitate me.
Your comment made me LOL!!!
I tend to agree with you. A beta male, who has a prodigious amount of talent in an area, that can lead to a lot of wealth creation will become more desirable. Many of the notable scientists and authors, like Einstein and Huxley, were notorious womanizers.
I also agree with you that many of the attractive males tend towards unstable relationships because they’ve don’t have to learn how to please their partner because there is always another one around the corner.
Why do you say this?
This is a guy who exclusively has sex with his wife. What's wrong with that?
The only person he's had sex with, is his wife. How would she be exposed to AIDS?
It’s a party drug somewhere between Ecstasy and morphene.
if he hasn’t had sex with another male he’s not gay he’s Bi..If he said he’s gay and did not have sex with men he’s full of crap and she needs to unload him as he is very f’ed up in the head.
He's one.
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