Like I said before on another thread, women used to trade sex for love and a lifetime of caring and commitment, now they trade it for a meal, a drink, or just to kill a few hours. They don’t understand how brutally strong the male sex drive is. many will get it when and where they can in today’s society. In my mother’s times, the women had a scheme...If none of them had sex before marriage then the guy would marry his girlfriend and really cherish sex with her. Plus, there would be not other place to get it. That scheme worked well.That's a very cynical view, and yet I cannot disagree with it. Marriage has always been an enterprise in which someone is the second-class citizen. For years it was women, but they had little choice. Now it's men... and they DO have a choice.