I’m assuming a Christian would simply understand that God comes first, but that she’s focused on a particular topic of family. I agree that the leadership team (husband/wife) should be strongly united. The ‘followership’ team should realize the leadership team is inseparably bonded.
Good summary.
That simple advice is the number one thing parents, even blended families can do to have a productive fun family life...
When that bond is broken, it leads to manipulation, frustration and strife within a family
Kids learn at an early age to pit mom against dad and visa versa...
The first question I asked my kids was when requesting to do something "What did you mom say"
"If she said "NO" what makes you think I will give you permission...I trust your mother judgment"
If I thought she was being too hard or unfair, it was a subject we discussed behind closed doors...
Parents today are too afraid to "hurt" their children "feelings" and according to the idiots we will damage them..