You are still free to do it as you wish.
This is not caving, this is doing it on the Christian business owner’s terms.
No it isn't. It's accepting without contest the assertion that a pervert can demand that I participate in his pathology, that his sickness is more socially important than my deeply held beliefs.
The Constitution -- in the very first amendment -- protects the right to the free exercise of religion. NOWHERE does it protect the right to be queer. We shouldn't have to trick the law to exercise our rights.
Besides, as another poster pointed out, using this tactic just concedes one more piece of high ground. The Left's plan has always been incremental ... inches, not miles. This gives them that inch, and encourages them to come after more.