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Please Don’t Thank Me for My Service
New York Times ^ | FEB. 21, 2015 | MATT RICHTEL

Posted on 02/21/2015 2:52:47 PM PST by jonascord

HUNTER GARTH was in a gunfight for his life — and about to lose.

He and seven other Marines were huddled in a mud hut, their only refuge after they walked into an ambush in Trek Nawa, a Taliban stronghold in Afghanistan. Down to his last 15 bullets, one buddy already terribly wounded, Mr. Garth pulled off his helmet, smoked a cheap Afghan cigarette, and “came to terms with what was happening.”

“I’m going to die here with my best friends,” he recalled thinking.

I didn’t know any of this — nor the remarkable story of his survival that day — when I met him two months ago in Colorado while reporting for an article about the marijuana industry, for which Mr. Garth and his company provide security. But I did know he was a vet and so I did what seemed natural: I thanked him for his service.

“No problem,” he said.

It wasn’t true. There was a problem.

(Excerpt) Read more at nytimes.com ...


TOPICS: Military/Veterans
KEYWORDS: thankyou; veterans
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To: jonascord
I've always thought that thanking a vet for his/her service rang a bit hollow...at least sometimes.The very best way that we,as a nation,can thank vets is to give them the help they deserve...that they've earned... to find decent jobs if they can work and give them the medical and financial support that they need if they can't.
21 posted on 02/21/2015 3:48:58 PM PST by Gay State Conservative (Obama;America's First "Third World" President)
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To: Joe Marine 76

I carry a dog tag with a US serial number on it because I was drafted.

I was not in Nam however I appreciate those who were and had I been sent I would have gladly gone. There were many who ansered the call in Viet Nam and every war from the Revolution up to that one.

Were it not for those who went before me and all the others in all the other wars fought none of us would have had the privilege of growing up in the greatest country of all. We might have been speaking Japaneeese or German.

I remember how veterans were treated after Nam and I make it a point to thank all Veterans and especially active duty and tell them or spouses that someone is thinkging about them and appreciates there service that I can remain free.

The time is coming however when it appears I will have to defend the oath I took upon being drafted and look forward to doing so if necessary for my children and grandchildren to hopefully have the chance to enjoy the freedoms that I have been blessed with during my lifetime.

I am now older so my days are numbered may the Lord give me the strength to do what I must do for my Lord, my Country and Family.


22 posted on 02/21/2015 3:49:13 PM PST by pcpa
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To: jonascord
I didn't earn it.

I beg to differ. Any military is a team effort. You did your part, whatever it was. For that, we owe you our thanks.

So ... thanks.

23 posted on 02/21/2015 3:50:15 PM PST by IronJack
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To: Joe Marine 76

The guiding force of the Vietnam generation was/is “Never Again! will our nation turn its back on our returning Veterans”

BTW, what’s the “76” mean?


24 posted on 02/21/2015 3:50:50 PM PST by AbnSarge
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To: AbnSarge

Sarge - I was “post-Vietnam” and “76” is the year I entered the Marine Corps.


25 posted on 02/21/2015 3:56:22 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: AbnSarge
If you are a Vietnam Vet and read this, THANK YOU!

Amen!

26 posted on 02/21/2015 3:58:12 PM PST by TADSLOS (The Event Horizon has come and gone. Buckle up and hang on.)
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To: Joe Marine 76

Parris Island?

I was a DI in 2nd BN from May ‘76 on.


27 posted on 02/21/2015 3:59:13 PM PST by AbnSarge
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To: Billthedrill

At any rate, I would not assume the three vets quoted speak for them all. The author is a typical Code Pinko with his talk about killing peasants in Vietnam and no WMDs in Iraq. I wouldn’t trust him.


28 posted on 02/21/2015 4:00:56 PM PST by Rastus
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To: Billthedrill

I was told at Ft Lewis not to wear my uniform

into Tacoma after getting back.

The busses we rode in had wire mesh covering the windows


29 posted on 02/21/2015 4:01:03 PM PST by Harold Shea
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To: pcpa

pcpa - Please check out my Post #18 to “billthedrill” about the upcoming Convention of States. Hopefully, we wont have to execute our Oath. I would think that most of will if it comes to that.


30 posted on 02/21/2015 4:01:31 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: Harold Shea

We came off the plane in Bangor, Maine VERY early in the morning for customs clearance and refueling. As we came out of the jetway, there was a double row of Vietnam Vets, each holding out a cell phone saying “Here - call your wife”


31 posted on 02/21/2015 4:03:30 PM PST by AbnSarge
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To: Billthedrill

“The Times loathes the courtesy shown to any veteran, so take this one with a bucket of salt.”

Bingo!

That’s the purpose of the piece.


32 posted on 02/21/2015 4:05:21 PM PST by ltc8k6
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To: 82nd Bragger

I agree with you. I think saying “thank you for your service” to guys like me who spent their years on active duty far away from the gunfire, killing and dying is ok and I,for one, always appreciate it.

But, for the guys that have walked through hell (really, really & truly, not the Brian Williams types) the statement “thank you for your service” statement, upon thoughtful reflection, really does just “not quite cut it”.

This is why many combat vets just don’t want to talk about “their service” at all.


33 posted on 02/21/2015 4:05:34 PM PST by Cen-Tejas (it's the debt bomb stupid)
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To: AbnSarge

Sorry Sarge.... I’m “A 90-Day Wonder” from the 98th Officer Candidate Class at MCDEC, Quantico, VA (June 13 - August 20, 1976)! By the way, the late GySgt Carlos Hathcock USMC was our Marksmanship Instructor while we were at The Basic School. What a Marine!

My “Twilight Tour” was at MCRD, Parris Island. I was the XO of “Heat & Steam” Battalion — H&SBn with collateral duties as the OIC, Casual Company, Depot Traffic Magistrate and OIC of the Regional Brig.

Memories!


34 posted on 02/21/2015 4:08:59 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: Joe Marine 76

Just missed each other.

I was permanent personnel (S4) at OCS MCDEC until April 76, when I went to DI School


35 posted on 02/21/2015 4:10:39 PM PST by AbnSarge
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To: AbnSarge

Sarge - My Drill Instructors at OCS were Gunnery Sergeant Edwin Ramos and Sergeant Sherman Brown.

Our Marine DIs ...Names we never forget!


36 posted on 02/21/2015 4:14:24 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: lee martell

People don’t usually thank police officers, warrant officers, or search & rescue personnel for their service. And if they do it’s certainly not every time they eat out or go shopping.

Don’t they deserve to be showered with trendy service slogans for a job they get paid for and benefits from, too??


37 posted on 02/21/2015 4:14:48 PM PST by Up Yours Marxists
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To: AbnSarge

By the way, it’s probably good that we “just missed each other” at OCS. You might have had to yell at me a time or two! ; )


38 posted on 02/21/2015 4:17:30 PM PST by Joe Marine 76 ("Honor is the gift a man gives to himself." ~ Rob Roy MacGregor)
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To: Up Yours Marxists

Absolutely, Police Officers deserve thanks and recognition too. The big difference is, me, personally, I don’t go out of my way attracting the attention of any police officer. If I have been working with someone on the force to resolve a legal matter, then yes, in private, as a one to one communication with someone who already knows me, that sort of Officer I will thank. Otherwise, they may wonder ‘What the hell is this guy so ‘happy’ about? Is he compensating out of guilt?”


39 posted on 02/21/2015 4:20:12 PM PST by lee martell (The sa)
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To: jonascord

I don’t agree with this. I’m a disabled Vietnam navy vet, and sometimes wear a Navy ball cap. I find that most folks that “thank me” for my service are also vets.


40 posted on 02/21/2015 4:24:21 PM PST by babygene
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