“... people will see me go into the unisex bathroom and that is humiliating for me, and I won’t do it.”
Many small restaurants have one unisex bathroom with a lock, and many larger restaurants have male, female, and unisex bathrooms. I can’t recall ever having been humiliated by having to use a unisex bathroom. Quite the contrary, I actually felt ... relieved.
Me too!
Exactly, if you have to go, you have to go. As long as I get a room, even if it has the so called unisex label, I DO NOT CARE.