I’m happily married to a woman that accepts my flaws, and loves me anyway. Been married 16 years and been with her 20 years.
If she were to die tomorrow, I would date fluffy 20 year olds. I don’t care if they’re a little overweight, plus they’re givers.
My thoughts on that are aimed at myself, nobody else. My line of reasoning makes sense to me, but ultimately it may not make total sense.
I don’t like the idea of transitioning into the geriatric years, as my significant other transitions into early middle aged.
At some point she would have to watch me fade away. I would also carry a big burden if she were to be tied down to me at that point.
Alas, it wouldn’t turn out well.
I do identify with your thoughts and reasoning. It also depends on what age were actually talking about too.
You obviously don't know what a relationship with a millenial is like... they are certainly not "givers" (even the fat ones)... they are more like dismissive, abusive, suspicious, disconnected, broken sociopaths.
Not "giving"... not at all.