No as a matter of fact the families do not “have say.”
Nor should they.
This is war. War is ugly.
Death is real, no matter how great some people wish to deny it.
gee then why aren’t we getting photos of body parts after our troops are destroyed by IEDs and air crashes in Afghanistan?
your argument is the same ones used by hypocritical libs to justify photographing caskets returning to Dover from Iraq (note how that stopped after nobama assumed power)
he11 why not just broadcast the autopsies too
yes we do owe the families respect and yes they do have a say about their loved ones being used in beheading instruction videos