I do attract crazies.
I think my easy going demeanor and pretty boy looks got me into more bar fights than it should have as, somehow, I loon like prey to some people.
Bar fights were fine. Always took a few hits but, won. Lots of practice with three younger brothers so might not have been fair bar fight.
As to stalkers, they altered my life such that I have very few friends over to my house.
Had a nutjob from work get my address and showed up at my home a few years back.
Took her out for coffee and put it to her straight “Not interested”.
Wow, well, I knew about the easy going demeanor and I knew about the good looks, but just wow! I’m not sure I could handle a stalker.
The people who rented my place here, that I’ve bought, were sort of obsessed with the place and upset at getting evicted and came over and did minor stuff. Twice and I called the police. I’ll get a restraining order if there’s ever another problem, let me assure you. I made sure they found this out too. I told my next door neighbors on the right. People sure do gossip around here!!! So I used that to my advantage.