i agree with both of your posts
funny thing was it was a 40 min. drive
to get there, the setting was fab, the prices
were neither cheap nor expensive
and he’s the one who selected it
also recently, at a sports bar a man walks in
sits down next to me and tells me he “knows” me
(from the very public place where i work)
we had a fun conversation for over an hour-—
he never offers to buy me a drink or pay for the
wine i had
meanwhile, he goes on about his 3 businesses, shows
me pictures of his very impressive house, blah, blah, blah!
it isn’t always about the woman manipulating the man...
Well, if it was me ? I would tell you right up front that I am not the man for you because I am poor and can’t support you.... at least ? I am honest and not trying to jerk your chain.