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To: Blue Ink
Young women created the “friend zone” as a way to spend time with men, while working around the sex-on-the-third-date-culture they were born into. Don’t hate the players; hate the game.

So wrong on many levels

If a woman puts you in the "friend zone" that means she isn't attracted to you. Once you are in the friend zone it's almost impossible to get out. Marriage with you is the last thing she has on her mind.

The sad reality is if you are in the "friend zone", more than likely she is just sleeping with some other/multiple players & thugs, but she is using you to fill her emotional needs.

You are basically subsidizing some other guy's penis, you do the work & spend the money, but it's the other guy who gets the prize.

81 posted on 03/13/2014 2:40:40 PM PDT by qam1 (There's been a huge party. All plates and the bottles are empty, all that's left is the bill to pay)
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To: qam1

“Marriage with you is the last thing she has on her mind.”

Wrong. Marriage is always on a woman’s mind. She may very well want to marry you. She just doesn’t want to sleep with you without being married.

And if you don’t understand that, you don’t understand a word of my post. You read the words “friend zone” and started typing about “work” and “money.” Which is exactly the point I was making — sex is not the price women want to pay for some guy buying them dinner.

There was no “friend zone” in the dating culture fifty years ago. Think about why.


82 posted on 03/13/2014 3:06:52 PM PDT by Blue Ink
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To: qam1
If a woman puts you in the "friend zone" that means she isn't attracted to you. Once you are in the friend zone it's almost impossible to get out. Marriage with you is the last thing she has on her mind. The sad reality is if you are in the "friend zone", more than likely she is just sleeping with some other/multiple players & thugs, but she is using you to fill her emotional needs.

Which means that guys need to wise up and move on. Time spent with a girl who has put you in the "friend zone" is time not spent on finding a girl who will be your mate.

As you noted, once you are in the "friend zone", that means she has no sexual interest in you, nor is she likely to ever have sexual interest in you, so it's best to not have further to do with her, and keep looking.

86 posted on 03/13/2014 6:12:08 PM PDT by PapaBear3625 (You don't notice it's a police state until the police come for you.)
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