[JimRed]

She's no more a "victim" than a drunk driver that wraps their car around a tree...

So, a kid does something stupid and becomes a participant rather than a victim? If I have too much to drink, leave my car at the pub and walk home and get mugged on the way, was I a non-victim too?

[papertyger]

If I have too much to drink, leave my car at the pub and walk home and get mugged on the way, was I a non-victim too?

You are if you took great pains to associate with the muggers, practiced deception to facilitate the association, and perhaps even provoked said muggers through word or deed.