So, as a parent of twins, both with severe autism, we can never eat out at a restaurant, on the chance that one or the other (or both) will have an "autism moment" lest they get labeled as "brats" and us as bad parents accordingly?
Apologies to all... my #39 was a bit aggressive and defensive. My point is that while there are lots of examples of bad parenting out there, don’t just assume that every child that acts up on the one occasion you see him or her is a case of chronic bad parenting.
“So, as a parent of twins, both with severe autism, we can never eat out at a restaurant, on the chance that one or the other (or both) will have an “autism moment” lest they get labeled as “brats” and us as bad parents accordingly?”
Basically Yes.
I had the opportunity to view on youtube a woman who’s son is very autistic. This woman had posted thousands of videos over the years. Often she needed 2:1 help controlling the lad who was in his 20’s and quite strong. These videos were an eye opener and I will say I don’t envy this woman at all. I will say this however, I don’t want to be near or have my kid near her kid or any kids like those because I am afraid of these people and their “meltdowns”. I can’t tell by these videos what causes them or when they occur. I also don’t want the risk of me or mine being hurt by a “meltdown”.