Your story made my screen go all fuzzy! There are many scammers out there, and we should be wary of them, but it seems that too many people (myself included sometimes) forget that there are many who are truly in desperate situations and just need a little help and kindness. May God bless you for sharing with this lady and daughter!
Thank you but honestly it (the $5) was more of a spur of the moment thing and after I left I wondered how she might take it, even if she might have been offended. After all she wasnt asking me for any help and while the two laundry detergent pods were no big deal to me - I didnt want any money for them and wouldnt even know what they were worth unless I remembered how much I paid for the bag and divided that cost by the number of pods in the bag, they were very important to her. She offered to pay something for them and it was me who decided that they were of so little monetary value to me that it wasnt worth taking anything from her for them and she thanked me and offered a second time to pay for them after I told her just to take them, that I had plenty.
We only got to talking after I gave her some of my detergent. She really didnt seem to be soliciting sympathy and didnt go in to great detail, but it seemed to me more like she just needed someone to talk to, with me being an older woman, a mother figure perhaps. As I mentioned, her little girl was very cute and friendly but like most 2 year olds, a little rambunctious. The mom was doing her best to keep her quiet and entertained but it was hard the kid wanted to be a kid and run around and was talking up a storm to me and I loved talking to her, I love toddlers (even though I couldnt understand much of what she was saying). The mom apologized to me several times, seemly very concerned that Jordan was being too loud and rude, and then she made the comment shes been hard to handle since her dad left us, she talks back to me a lot, is rude sometimes .kind of like her dad was to us. Thats when she made the comment about him not being very nice to us. She didnt say much else about him but with that comment and the fading bruise on her cheek, I got the picture.
Slipping the $5 bill into her basket on my way out was as I said, was an impulse on my part. And I really hope she didnt take it the wrong way. She didnt impress me as someone who would ask for a handout but as someone who was trying to take care of herself and her daughter the very best she could. I hope she didnt take it the wrong way. I wasnt pitying her or feeling sorry for her but just saw a young woman with a young child who probably needed a little random act of kindness. The $5 would pay for another load of laundry, not much but something.