that’s a lot of healing....knowing that I now see the real humor in your original post.
during my divorce I used to dream of beating my ex to death with a softball bat. I know that sounds really extreme but it was so very satisfying. All these years later we get along well enough to have dinner in a public place or eat at our daughter’s house for the holidays.
And yeah I did at least as much damage to the marriage as my ex did.
I totally understand, I had to take her to court 8 times, just to see my kids.. Finally, I gave her everything (I MEAN EVERYTHING)I had if she would give me the children, and she took the deal.. It didn’t really surprise me..
I knew all along it was all about the money, because she also knew that I would do what had to be done to raise the kids, and if she made me give up the businesses, I would have full time to do it right..
I wanted to wring her neck, but just like most men that get screwed, we suck up and move along.. It’s all about the children after all..