[what's up]

Do you think that when people feel listened to on a more fundamental level, that they are less likely to chew your ear off with minutiae?

Not necessarily. The person who feels honored by your interest will treat it graciously.

But the person who feels its her/her due might go on and on.

My ex wife used to listen patiently to me telling such a story

Just out of curiousity. Is this the one who clued you into the "leading question" theory or is there a new Mrs. who did that?

You do have interesting stories BTW!

[MHGinTN]

Guys, those of you who have a Lady who wants to communicate, thank God for her and cherish her attention and presence. ... Speaking from experience, guys.

[allmendream]

Ex was from six years ago. Still a dear friend. New wife and i expecting a baby in two months. And thanks!