[Melas]

I dated a woman from a traditional culture that was a 36 year old virgin. I figured she might have potential and asked her if she engaged in masturbation - when she said no I was very troubled by her lack of sex drive and lack of even self experience with sexuality.

Makes perfect sense to me. The problem is that you'll find a number of equally misguided men, who would look upon the above description positively, only to find themselves married to her and unable to shake the lonely, unloved feeling that would permeate their marriage.

[allmendream]

That was one of my major problems - she would be a real prize to SOME men who valued such ‘undeveloped real estate’ - but for me it would be a total waste.

I have no desire to be (at this stage of my life) a woman's first - just to be her BEST! ;)

Out of the dating pool now, thankfully. Sexy nurse with piles of books in every room of her house got me all lovey dovey with great sex, lots of love, and an open offer of sex on demand.

Women could learn a lot from her. I am marrying her as soon as possible. ;)

[trailhkr1]

The problem is that you'll find a number of equally misguided men, who would look upon the above description positively, only to find themselves married to her and unable to shake the lonely, unloved feeling that would permeate their marriage.

It goes both ways. You always hear about the frigid wife but just as many women want more intimacy and passion in their marriage and are not getting it. Their husbands ignore them for various reasons..porn, hobbies or jobs that consume their lives. Lot of sexually frustrated Peg Bundy's out there.