They have to be drunk or high. Lots of women co-sleep without harming their kids.
Misfired comment? I think you wanted the one who commented to me.
Agreed - we slept with all of our babies, and the nurses, etc. all said the same thing. If you aren’t drinking or on meds you’ll know!
Although a buddy of mine has vague memories of a nanny of his that would lay down on the bed, with him wedged in between her and the wall while she drank herself into a stupper watching TV!