I NEVER have posted any comments about s-x because it is just not my conversation genre HOWEVER I am completely tired of all the negative comments about wives being unresponsive or frigid once they get married. Here’s the bottom line...how exciting would it be, for a man if a woman selfishly pleasured herself and became unresponsive to the man’s need to continue. How many nights would he find pleasure or would it finally become tedious to the point of why bother? This is how mechanical married intimacy becomes. 2 kisses, in/out 6-10x, turn over, snores...or something along those lines. If the man wants a woman who is always ready to bed, he needs to bring her to her pleasure before he takes his own. and that’s the truth.
Please no discussion or comments...this is a very private issue.
(Rolls eyes into next state.)
“I just got to feel that whoever I marry has some real regard for me, aside from all that lovin’ stuff.”
Marilyn Monroe, Bus Stop, 1956
You’re 100% right.
If you didnt want comments or discussion then dont post. women learn from an early age to use sex as a tool or weapon to get what they want. better know as manipulation. So, if you don’t feed your dog then don’t get mad when he gets into the trash.
I know you don’t want responses, but this is a forum and they don’t work that way. It seems there is a lot you don’t understand about male sexuality. I knew a whole lot of guys growing up (many males haven’t learned discretion at that point in their lives, they give you too much information and won’t shut up) whose biggest fantasies involved watching a woman selfishly pleasuring herself. I never wanted to talk about sex when I was young due to religious convictions I no longer hold, but I can’t say I’m any different in that regard. The more a man watches a woman climax the more effort he’s going to put in to making it happen again, and again, and again. If he feels like it’s unattainable because —lets face it— it can be difficult then he’s likely to give up and focus on what he knows he can attain. (Unfortunately Mrs. couldn’t attain much, if any, pleasure herself in the two or three years between the two C-sections she had, but they removed a bunch of scar tissue from the first one during the second that made things return to normal.)