Me too, no sense wasting the moment of opportunity. Did my home work ahead of time, when the time was right, the girl was “welcoming”.
Too many guys are just idiots when it comes to relating to/dealing with women. Or arrogant idiots.
Treat with love & respect, and generally she will respond. Read her. Is she responding? If not, move on. Don’t force yourself where not wanted. It doesn’t work.