Well, I have and the women are TERRIFIED of their husbands.
The one poor women I remember well. She was a wreck when in his presence, which was very overbearing and disapproving. All he'd have to do was shoot her a look and she cowed.
I don't think he had a clue how obvious it was.
Some years ago we took care of the rental house next door for the landlord but had no input in its renting out. A young couple with a 4 YO boy moved in. Wife noticed time and again that woman had bruises and bandages here and there on her body. It became obvious that her husband was putting them there. Wife tried to talk to the woman a few times and offered her a way out but she only said, “he loves me.” Eventually the U-hauled away in the night owing 3 months rent. We cleaned out the place and found multiple fistholes in the wallboard and broken furniture and two metal garbage cans we filled with half pint and pint Johnny Walker flasks. They went up to Alabama and two years later returned to another part of town. He went home drunk one night and shot his wife in front of the little son. He is still on death row in Raiford (Florida).