OK all you who recommend waiting until marriage, what if you marry a freak who likes to hurt people during sex? Or you find after the marriage that you can’t stand each other sexually and you are doomed to life with crummy sex? As someone who has experienced a fabulous connection after many years with a cold lonely connection, I can tell you unequivocally that the fabulous connection is much preferable. In my mind, the whole fake deal about waiting until after you were stuck in a marriage had to do with keeping the young marrieds from knowing the difference.
You are deceiving yourself. You will never find true happiness in divorce and remarriage.