I know nothing of your particular situation, but my woman’s intuition tells me what your wife really means is that there is something related to your marital relationship that she wants to talk to you about, but she does not know how to approach it.
We women just take a very circuitous route sometimes. It’s frustrating to men, I know, but that is how we are.
+1
Yes, you all are natural born emotional torturers. I mean the Rack, waterboarding, toothpicks under fingernails, has nothing on you gals.
:)