Child Support is a scam, I send the ex an ungodly amount of money and the child is in my care half of the time... And what do I see for it? My daughter literally slept on a boxspring and mattress on the floor for years before she finally went out and spent $50 for a cheap metal frame...
What is my recourse for her taking the money but not spending it on my child???? Legally? Not really a damned thing I can do about it.. Unless I want to spend gobs more of it on lawyers only to lose my argument in the courts because lack of spending the funds directly on the child is not neglect or abuse.
I subsidize the ex and her lazy new husband with my support payments, nothing else.
husband = cash cow
Bad men, bad women, nothing new but the courts are ABSOLUTELY biased against men.
I can’t imagine having to pay thru the nose for alimony/child support when the Mom has a new “boy-toy” living in the house, either but it happens.