[Mr. K]

get a hobby

But seriously folks... if it is a mutual divorce decision and you are in agreement, just draw it up and have a single lawyer file the paperwork.

Otherwise, it is not a ‘fair and just’ system- it is two lawyers fighting with each other until all the money is gone, followed by an idiotic decision by an idiot.

Then the lawyers go out to dinner together (with your money)

But really, get a hobby and do something you’ve always wanted to do. The kids will love to see you interested in something other than the proceedings. With luck they’ll like doing it with you.

I find and restore old boats and go boating/fishing. its a ton of fun- and people are giving them away free (look online)

[CGASMIA68]

Good advice....Few beers wont hurt(sarc)

[cherry]

sadly, my son just finished up his divorce....his ex and him did it simply, no animosity..they thought of the kids and that lead them...

I still think highly of my ex DIL...

in the back of my mind, I think of scenarios where they could get back in love......