Until you came along, this thread was getting pretty depressing ;-)
Thanks. The reality is even better than my account. I was very devastated and yet, within a year I was on top of the world and remain there for the next two decades. I am almost reluctant to describe it sometimes as I have friends that have gone through divorce without the blessing I have received. In utter desolation I prayed to the Lord to help me, and wow, was my faith confirmed.