Feel for ya dude,respond to private messages thing get as much info as you can.
1st one to hire an attny wins...dont screw around go for the throat
Scorched earth. It’s the only way to be sure.
>>1st one to hire an attny wins...dont screw around go for the throat
Agree completely, but let the attorney be the bad guy/gal.
1.Ask around and try to find the best attorney. Many attorneys offer a free 1 hour consultation. Do that with a few of them. See how sympathetic they are to you, plus you learn a lot of good free info. Lawyer fees can vary, and the most expensive isnt always necessary.
2.Search Google for your state laws on divorce. I live in Illinois, its view is that it is the childrens advocate. Women have no advantage. Right across the river in Missouri, women have big advantage. The internet is a wealth of good info. You may be able to get custody or join custody. Get the facts on child support percentages and stuff like that.
3.Be prepared for war. Do not be moved by being fair, you will regret it. Make a list of any and all assets you have. She should also. There may be things like pensions etc, involved, you might be able to take a part of it.
Find out who’s name every utility is in. As others said, do NOT move out of the house. No matter how bad it is, staying the house. That is definetly something to talk to your lawyer about
As for the loneliness, that is a hard one. Goto bookstore and sit and read books there.
If you have not been a church goer, casually talk to the Lord, talk to him about how you feel. Look to Him as a caring friend who is always there to listen. You may be amazed what comes out of that.
Do a Google search on ‘scriptures for hurting people’...very much there there
Sorry for your situation.