You are right.
And let’s make no mistake about it, except for the strong, it can be very seducing, unbridled earthly pleasures.
I had a woman, maybe 15 years ago, invite me up to her apartment at the end of a date. She has TWO KIDS up there. Children!
She as stunning and sexy but I managed to get her out of the car and floor it home to a cold shower. :)
I know it would have been wrong even without hte kids there, but to bring my weakness and sins into their lives, that’s beyond horrific. And that’s what i would have been doing whether they woke up or not.
And how did she know I wasn’t a child predator?!? I’m not. But how did she know afer one date?
This is VERY common now, with more unwed mothers than wed ones for the first time voting for dems.
Boyfriends CAN’T TAKE the crying and all around difficulties of raising a child that’s not theirs. So they hurt them. it’s heartbreaking.
Women are all over the internet looking for daddies for their babies (all by different fathers, most in prison). I would not date someone with a child, period, it’s too much trouble. Sadly, genetics being what it is, the child would likely be predisposed to the same conduct as the birth parents (criminality) and I would not want to deal with junior or juniorette as a teen and the messes they would get into (with no decent role models, save yourself), be it the aforementioned crime or their getting knocked up (or knocking someone else up).