Easy fix.
Just don’t pass any law at all, and get the state out of doing marriages altogether. That’s fair to everyone.
I don’t think there’s an enforceable requirement for any state to issue marriage licenses to anyone.
So don’t do it at all.
I wish I were a pastor so I could have the opportunity to refuse services to gays.
How long before applications for government employment or military service question one’s religious affiliation? You’re Southern Baptist? Presto, no government job or military service, since they’re all homophobes.
See where this is headed?