Yes, under the new Affirmative Consent regime kissing your wife (or whoever) while she sleeps is rape. After all, she didn't give consent. I have raped my wife on multiple occasions according to this new definition.
“I have raped my wife on multiple occasions according to this new definition..”
That’s okay.. she’s raped you right back. :)
Screw the rules then because such a definition is absurd beyond all reason.