It takes time. I was a dishwasher for 3 years before I enlisted. I took a paycut. Best experience I ever had.
I wouldn’t be where I am today without being a dishwasher.
Yep - nothing wrong with washing dishes or working at MacDonald’s. People used to understand that. Now they’re all “entitled” and “special”. When the malcontents take charge, idiocy rules. Common sense is on life support.