There’s nothing shocking here. Mainline Protestants, and plenty of Catholics, ceased to believe in the Incarnation a long time ago. They do not believe that the preaching of Jesus reveals the mind of God, because they do not believe that Jesus had a divine as well as a human mind.
You are surely not speaking for this Catholic, or any that I know.
this has always bothered me. Why do they bother with calling themselves Christians?
You and I can only judge by a person’s works, but God will not be fooled.