When I was a young adult woman, we didn’t make the guys wait-I didn’t know even one virgin by my 1st year of college-I guess some would say we were all a bunch of sluts-but most of us were not promiscuous, and we got engaged to a steady guy, married before or after graduation, had kids, house in the burbs, etc.
In the remote ranching area near the border where I grew up, when boys started to really notice the girls at maybe 14-15, dads took them to one of the fancier brothels across the river and had the boy pick a prostitute a few years older to show him what it was all about-common practice that we all knew about-no one thought much about it, and it was supposed to keep us respectable ranch girls virgin a bit longer. I don’t think it worked all that well, though-hormones are hormones...
Here in the South it used to be said that sex outside of wedlock was forbidden to a woman - unless it was with the man she intended to marry.
I’m blessed; when we married, I lost interest in any other woman. That was 35 years ago.
Yeeee! Haaaw! ZZTop wrote “Mexican Blackbird” just for us.