It’s an observation. I am simply noting the behavior I observe. I see daily threads where RCC types post long tomes as to the insanity of anyone being a protestant.
Most share the overthought, vindictive, condescending tone found in dumped girls. It’s also seen in cults like scientology or islam where “apostate” thought is bitterly attacked.
I think it’s a self defense technique. If the one who departed is “proven” to be malevolent, wrong, evil, erroneous, hardheaded, etc,,, then the dumped one must be right and good, and need never look inward.
You may have a point....