A softer heart? As in oh be nice to them and let them suffer kind of softer? Thats not going to happen. Read through Revelation and you will see whats coming for those who do not come out of the RCC. After the true bride of Christ is taken from this world those who remain will experience the wrath of God and Revelation details that in horrific detail.
>>the church is His church, there is no reason for Him to call us out of her.<<
The RCC is definitely not the church that Christ instituted. The church that Christ began does not include pagan practices.
Let me ask you CB, do you believe that all one must do to be saved is believe in Jesus? Believe He is the Word of God who died for our sins and rose from the dead?