You mistake hatred for pity. (for eyes that see, but yet are blind)
You mean I mistook pity for hatred? No, I made no mistake. It is hatred along with loathing. If it WERE pity, we would not be reading insults and name calling, telling people to get off their mules, joking about missing brains, stuff like that. Christians are supposed preach the word; be ready in season and out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with great patience and instruction. (II Timothy 4:2) A bit of love mixed in wouldn't hurt either.
bb is right.
If you think that posts like that display pity and people are misinterpreting it, then there's something wrong with the delivery and that's not on the hearer's end.
Besides, nobody on this planet is stupid enough to think that name calling and insults are pity. Except perhaps the person trying to snow everyone.