Lera:
Man sets the tone for his house . If the tone in his house is bad he had better start asking himself what he is doing that the tone in his house is bad.
MarkBsnr:
That is correct. I find that women despise men that they can dominate.
If you treat a wife like property she will feel like a slave and seek freedom. If you love and cherish her she will do the same to you. Happy couples walk side by side helping each other along the way. They become best friends if they didn’t start out that way. If you want to receive you had better give (I am not talking about money or things you can buy with it )
Psalms 31 describes the perfect wife. She is G-d fearing and loves her husband and her family much . If you read it you’ll notice she is quite independent and not controlled or micromanaged ... her husband is very loving and cherishes her.
I’m going to repeat this because this is the secret to a happy marriage.
Man sets the tone for his house . If the tone in his house is bad he had better start asking himself what he is doing or (or not doing) that the tone in his house is bad.
Pedestals are for plants
And for the perfect woman whom I married. I am not married to you.