I haven't followed the question.
I think the Calvinists are right that there may be crispy critters in the deep fat fryer for reasons the justice of which we cannot see. So I think there's an appropriate theological humility in saying, "Well it sure seems to me that a just and loving God would just scoop the little ones up into heaven, but I'm not all THAT smart, so maybe I'm wrong. Maybe I need to study this for another 1,800 years or so. Get back to me."
Well, I know where I’ll be in 1800 years. Hope to see you there! ;o)
Personally
I have absolutely no trouble believing the multiple reports from Heavenly visitations
that 100% OF ALL THE ABORTED BABIES ARE IN HEAVEN.
That’s the NATURE OF THE GOD OF ABRAHAM, ISAAC AND JACOB.