Both of you made a conscious decision, after thoughtful consideration, to leave the Catholic Church.
I made a conscious decision, after thoughtful consideration, to be baptized into the Catholic Church.
Neither of you has the intention to leave the present course of your Christian life.
Likewise, I have no intention of leaving the Catholic Church.
This is really is the bottom line, as I see it.
My whole life is entrusted to the Lord and I am at peace to let Him sort all this out on the Last Day.
May i ask the deciding reason for you becoming a catholic? What were you at the time??