It seems you are saying: meek, shy, retiring, get along-ism is proper behavior.
Humility in no way removes one from being bold, forceful, or righteous anger.
Answer me this: Does righteous anger work all the time? Does being bold and forceful always suit the situation? Nope. In fact, in a lot of circumstances they're counterproductive.
Sometimes meek, shy, retiring, and just trying to get along, can be just what the doctor ordered.
It's not about us, after all -- it's all about those to whom we're bringing the Message. Shouldn't we follow Jesus' example in that regard? According to Matthew, Jesus behaved in a manner that fulfilled prophecy:
"Behold, my servant whom I have chosen,
my beloved with whom my soul is well pleased.
I will put my Spirit upon him,
and he will proclaim justice to the Gentiles.
He will not quarrel or cry aloud,
nor will anyone hear his voice in the streets;
a bruised reed he will not break,
and a smoldering wick he will not quench,
until he brings justice to victory;
and in his name the Gentiles will hope."
Boldness, forcefulness, and righteous anger have their place; but wrongly applied they become intemperate and indiscreet zeal, and they will break the bruised reed, quench the smoldering wick. Is that not a monstrous sin?
Humility in no way removes one from being bold, forceful, or righteous anger.
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We are to be humble before God and Christ. That doesn’t mean we have to be weak in presenting the Gospel.
I try to reign in my anger, but I admit I get very frustrated with those who don’t see the danger of heresies in our midst.