The many apparitions of Mary and God speaking through "Saints" is not Catholic teaching. Believe what you will but many of your fellow Catholics will vociferously deny the "we believe" part.
As a mother I certainly understant much better. I used to criticize our priests, God has enlightened me to appreciate the special gifts that they are. As a mother, the role model of Mother Mary is essential for me and my daughter. The examples of the Saints are precious testimony for my sons and daughters. I would have never said that 15 years ago. They are simply wonderfull gifts God has given our families, not "evil". Of course we don't all believe the exact same way. Do Protestants?