Lesson 32 of 43.
Lesson 32 of 43.
Having been married for 4.5 years and subsequently divorced (both my parents and my ex-in laws were married for 30+ and still together), I’m convinced that it’s selfishness that causes most marriages to go south. Avoid it, and things work out well.
Be interesting.
Have a sense of humor.
Be physical.
Avoid the sin of thinking the worst about any of your spouse’s unknowns.
Don’t poison the well with accusations or demands.
Say something kind and thoughtful *every* day.
Remember that anytime you tell yourself that He/She “just outta know” something, they don’t. That’s how your brain rationalizes *you* being a bad communicator.
I have read the entire Catechism of the Catholic Church and there is nothing in it which says that it is a mortal sin to refuse to have intercourse with one’s spouse or that one may refuse intercourse only for a serious reason. That is not to say that spouses do not have a right to intercourse because they do, but I think this priest’s opinion is extreme.
Well, if you don't know I'm not going to tell you.