You're saying that you can't lose a gift? Sorry - if that's a serious question, we have no common ground for discussion.
The only way you can lose the gift of eternal life is to wipe out the work of the cross. It is already done for you. You can choose what Jesus did or choose a life of always working for approval and never quite knowing if you have done enough for it. It's so sad. If you think you can lose it, you never had it in the first place.
You have kids??? Or you used to??? What, they were unruly and you put them up for adoption??? Or did you chastize them and keep on teaching and rearing??? Our FATHER in Heaven does the same thing with his children...He didn't adopt us and then give us back to the adoption agency if we make some mistakes along the way...
Those saved by faith that Christ paid the full price for our redemption are filled with the Holy spirit...We have gone thru a Spiritual circumcision where our bodies are no longer connect to our soul...We had an 'operation'...
We are in God and God IS in us...24/7...We will not be separated from Christ...Can't be...
When this body dies, my soul is going up...And when Jesus shows up, my body will be lifted up, regardless of what state it's in and will be changed into whatever glorios body Jesus' human flesh turned into before He took residence in Heaven...
Praise God...