But when our sensibilities and biases blind us to truth . . . there is a problem. And God can care a lot about that.
In fencing matches this behavior would lead to an ejection from the piste. Here leaping roughshod on the sensitivities of others, refusing to show the least comprehension of each other's point of view is implausibly attributed to an excess of love for the person one is abusing.
It's very like the way Democrats do social programs. The intention is noble so the outcomes don't matter. And this is explained as an example of "fruits of the Spirit".