Mary is a type of Church (see 5,731), so both readings are mutually consistent. Apocalypse clearly describes the woman as the mother of the son, with Whom she ultimately wins the battle. And of course she is in heaven and has a crown, as a Queen of Heaven would.
when did Mary flee into the wilderness? Here it says right after she bore the child.
Both Apocalypse and the book of Matthew describe flight to Egypt following the birth.
The true Queen of Heaven will be the bride of Christ, not the mother, and then only after the marriage feast.
As you wish; I just read what's written.