APA...Pseudo-science is more like it. Just because someone "feels" its not a disorder does not make it so. Biological function determines it in this case. You need help.
A lot of psychology seems a bit like quackery to me, but anyway.. the field is what it is and homosexuality was de-listed as a mental disorder, because there are no defining mental characteristics that can be attributed to all homosexuals.
"You need help."
That's just what you "feel".