Rememer that the Atlantis in its hypothetical mission can bring up whatever we think would be helpful, including EVA suits for everybody, a wrench and arm to remove the science lab, a second docking adaptor for Columbia, etc, etc.
No I don't have an itemized list of exactly what Atlantis would have needed to carry to rescue the crew. My point is the mantra "There is nothing that could have been done" is unproven and highly suspect.
Ummmm, the reentry pattern is designed to reduce heating as much as possible anyway. It would be senseless to design a reentry pattern that did not reduce heating as much as possible.
I was taught that the current reentry pattern was a trade off between a steep angle (way too much heat) and a shallow angle (low heat, but a risk of skipping off the atmosphere and careening into space). I also notice that the breakup happened when the shuttle was entering a left roll. I don't know if changing the roll pattern would have had any affect at all on wing stresses, but from what I can tell it wasn't even considered.